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October 2025 net worth update

October 31st, 2025 at 10:55 pm

I have to play catchup on photos again! Hopefully I'll find time tomorrow. Meanwhile here's our net worth update.

It was another pretty good month thanks mainly to retirement gains. I still expect the bubble to burst at some point, but we have a nearly $190K surplus on our CoastFIRE balance, so I'm not too worried. Also there's always a rebound after a downturn, and we've got at least another decade before we fully retire.

Next month our debt will go under $700K, which would be a cool milestone except it's looking much more certain that we will not even come close to paying off our HELOC this year, so whatever that balance is on 12/31 I'll be adding that to our "official" debt balance.

Assets      
NT's UK pensions:      
AV1: 29,509 pounds $36,886    
SW: 37,117 pounds $46,396    
AV2: 8,462 pounds $10,578    
NT's trad. rollover IRA $155,219    
NT's Roth IRA $103,586    
NT's SEP IRA $8,950    
NT's AAC acct $14,314    
AS's trad. rollover IRA $38,724    
AS's Roth IRA $146,834    
AS's SEP IRA $104,315    
AS's Nevada acct (approx amt) $380    
CJ's trad. rollover IRA $326,634    
CJ's Roth IRA $111,865    
CJ/NT/AS house ($643,000 value -6%) $604,420    
CJ/NT/AS rental property ($599,000 value -6%) $563,060    
TOTAL ASSETS $2,272,161 retirement only: $1,104,681
       
Debt      
Main mortgage $322,004    
Rental property mortgage $370,364    
Loan from friends (main house) $9,000    
TOTAL DEBT $701,368    
       
Current Estimated Net Worth September 2025 $1,570,793    
       
September 2025 estimate: $1,549,688    
       
Change in net worth $21,105    
       
       
COAST FIRE: https://walletburst.com/tools/coast-fire-calc/    
retirement goal $1.59 million by 2039 (CJ age 65)    
       
Current age: 51      
Retirement age: 65      
Annual spending in retirement: $63,600      
Monthly contribution: $250      
Investment growth rate: 7%      
Inflation rate: 3%      
Withdrawal rate: 4%      
Current invested assets $1,104,681    
Coast FIRE number at current age $918,185    
Current status: at Coast FIRE with surplus: $186,496    
       
       
Coast FIRE budget      
Ideal budget Monthly    
Housing $0 (rent will cover prop expenses)  
Healthcare $1,500    
Groceries $1,000    
Fun $1,500    
Travel $1,000    
Utilities $500    
Giving $500    
Home improvement $500    
Gifts $250    
Transportation $250    
Monthly $7,000    
Minus add'l rental income -$1,700    
Total monthly $5,300    
Annual $63,600    
       
SSN estimates 2024 Start age 62 Start age 70  
Monthly benefit $4,200 $7,200  
Plus monthly from retirement $5,300 $5,300  
Total monthly $9,500 $12,500  

Photo-a-day game: Trip to DMV

October 22nd, 2025 at 04:00 am

Once again I got super busy, this time going to DC (by way of Baltimore airport) and Northern Virginia (hence "DMV" which is a common abbreviation for the area--thank goodness I didn't spend 5 days in the Dept of Motor Vehicles!!). It was just the parents--the kids stayed home again (with their godfather in the lower part of the duplex, so not really "home alone").

We flew in Thursday and I didn't take many pics, but I did take one of a mezcal menu to text my friend who's a fan of the liquor to ask his advice on which flight to order, heheh. (He didn't answer so I picked at random.)

On Friday, we went to a fancy little awards gala for Black authors, where the main awards were called "the Zoras" (after Zora Neale Hurston). Afterward in the bar we ended up at a table with two of the winners, so I snapped a pic of their trophies!

On Saturday we had another fancy event in the evening associated with this same group, but first, during the day, NT and I attended the DC No Kings rally! It was massive, and very peaceful, and we got to hear Bernie Sanders speak (though we couldn't see him from where we were).

On Sunday, I went to Northern Va. where my dad lives. All three of my sisters plus some nieces and nephews came by for a few hours too. I didn't take many pics that don't have my relatives' faces in them, but I did snap one of my kid V's wallet, which they thought was gone forever but had actually been left at my sister's on their last visit a few months before. More than the wallet, they'd been super sad about the leather "chip" in it from their first YMCA camp, so I texted a pic right away!

I stayed at my dad's Sunday night and in the afternoon we had one more game of Scrabble before I headed to the airport. It was a close one til I got a big triple-word score near the end. With this win, I beat him 2 out of 3. (His final score is hard to read but it's 276.) But I had to work hard for those wins--he's 94 years old but his brain is sharp as a tack!

I didn't take any pics today but doing this post reminded me to, so here's a shot of my other kitty Clue! She's the same age as the sick old cat, but she's more independent and busy so she's not hanging around me trying to get a cuddle all the time. 

Photo-a-day game: Playing catchup!

October 17th, 2025 at 09:12 pm

Hahaha, I drastically underestimated how hectic my October is; I've got so much going on and trying to get my paid work done in between other things has made for crazy days that are over before I know it. Well, I've got a couple hours of downtime right now, so I looked through my phone to see if I happened to take any pics this last week. Not many, but here are a few:

Saturday 10/11

I spent Friday-Sunday in a DIY in-town "writer's retreat" with a friend; we visited libraries, coffeeshops and other locations around Minneapolis and wrote intensively at each one. I got over 10K words written but didn't take many photos! However, after our full day of writing Saturday I caught a good music show in a charming dive bar, and I liked this pic from it:

Tuesday 10/14

Our sick cat loves to sit on my lap when I'm trying to get work done because I work on the couch. Usually he cuddles down where the computer would go so AS got me this table that fits over him so I can keep working while he sleeps. But that day, he decided to sit in such a way that the table was rendered useless because it wouldn't fit over him. So I took a pic to send AS:

Thursday 10/16

I was in a bad mood and having trouble focusing so I took a walk around the neighborhood. The fresh air and exercise cleared my head and this Halloween display cheered me up by making me laugh:

Photo-a-day game! Photo 2: Preconstructed dinner

October 10th, 2025 at 12:40 am

I remembered to take a photo while I was prepping dinner. Not very aesthetic or exciting but here tis! This is a recipe called Pasta Della California from the cookbook Veganomicon by Isa Chandra Moskowicz. I don't know when we started topping it with chopped up vegan chikn nuggets, but that was part of it (not pictured).

It contains lime juice and zest, garlic, chili flakes, salt, veggie broth, white wine, broccoli, arugula and avocado. Usually I do it with linguine but had to settle for spaghetti tonight.

Late entrant into the photo-a-day game! Photo 1: kid and cat

October 9th, 2025 at 05:25 am

I've been wanting to get more active on the blogs again for, like, years, but the things I need and love to do have just expanded and filled every nook and cranny of my life, it seems. So blogging at the level I used to just seemed daunting. This photo game feels like a low-stakes (in terms of time and mental effort) way to hang out with y'all more, so I'm going to try. If I happen to take a photo and if I happen to remember to post it, I shall.

This was the only pic I took today. Our kitchen's heated floor just got turned on after our unseasonably warm fall finally cooled off, and so immediately the critters started gravitating to it. This is my oldest kid (AA, 15) and one of our two old cats, Whiskers (Whiskey). He's the one with cancer; he's also got a benign tumor on his back (unrelated to the terminal cancer) that he'll scratch until it's gouged and bleeding, so we put him in baby shirts now. He can even do a lot of damage through T-shirt material, so AS sews denim patches over the tumor spot. Now he can scratch to his heart's content and not bloody up his back!