I'm sorry; I try not to be controversial in places where it might be problematic.
But I just came back from a "bachelor party" for two male friends having a commitment ceremony next week. These are two friends who are moral, upright, religious and kind on all counts, and compeletely in love with one another (for the past 5 years). Yet family members who have supported them being together are having a problem with them having a commitment ceremony.
These familial haters keep bringing up the Bible or God, thinking the two lines of the Bible condeming homosexuality are somehow more powerful than the dozens of lines condemning shellfish and poly-cotton blends. I just don't get it.
I get having an opinion of something; I happen to think that eating, killing or using for entertainment an animal is just as wrong as eating, killing, or using for entertainment a human. But I realize I may not have all the answers where that is concerned, so I still love people who do such things to animals.
Basically, unless you kill or harm a human being deliberately, I will at least respect your basic nature. I can't believe these friends have to face so much petty judgment from these family members, who have taken a huge step interpreting God's will (where they've freely assumed other parts of the Bible are just dated per the era they were written in). I can't believe they'd take such a risk with the love of their sons/brothers.
Their loss, though. I will love these men their whole lives, feeling fortunate that I met them and know them.
Sorry again, but I just had to vent. This is so wrong.
CJ
Mean people suck
July 15th, 2007 at 07:51 am
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July 15th, 2007 at 03:18 pm 1184512735
and yes, you will be suprised at how bigoted most people are when it comes to choosing your life partner- perhaps it's the normality of the situation that is really freaking them out
and enjoy the day
July 15th, 2007 at 08:06 pm 1184529997
When anyone makes a comment about our lives, we flat out tell them it's NOT their business.
Kudos to you for being their friend!
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July 16th, 2007 at 06:22 am 1184566961
Strangely I've not yet noticed our society or marriage fall apart but maybe I just haven't been looking hard enough.
I'll start casting stones at others when my house is perfectly in order. Please don't hold your breath!
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